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  Sex before marriage

  by Jules Saturn in

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  for ex jws, pimos, pomos, faders, born again christians, agnostics, atheists, etc.

  what is your opinion regarding sex before marriage, has your view been influenced since you left?

  in western society, you’ll probably find yourself ridiculed to be an 18 year old virgin so i am curious to hear opinions from here.

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  stan livedeath

  I think its considered bad form to be doing it immediately before marriage.
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  What Makes 🍕 Pizza Delicious To Tou?

  by minimus in

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  2. friends

  i am watching a tv show that highlights area restaurants and pizza is the subject.

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  what is your favorite style and type of pizza?.

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  tdttan hour ago

  Bread, tomato sauce, and cheese.

  yep--just an over rated over priced toasted cheese and tomato sauce sandwich.

  the sort of thing that could well have been invented by the watchtower society.
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  Why are JDubs scared to death of apostate websites?

  by Sour Grapes in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  when i was an elder back in the 1970's i loved to debate and challenge ministers, preachers, and holy rollers.

  now you can be a loyal jdub fully indoctrinated for 30 years but just take a peek at an apostate website and you are doomed.

  yes, satan now has you by the gonads and all of the years of being at the meetings, all of the family worship nights, all of the conventions, and all of the personal study just go up in a cloud of smoke.

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  because he heard of an apostate who came to the meeting one time and whispered in someone's ear something and then that person never came back to the meetings again

  
  

  it was a smurf.
  
  
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  over 700 baptized yesterday at one convention in Africa

  by dropoffyourkeylee in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  there was a french language congregation this weekend in congo dr which had 44,000 in attendance and something like 730 baptized.

  i'm not saying that is good or bad, just reporting the news..

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  lets hope the cult pump lots of cash into the congo. most people wouldnt even know where it is. of what relevance to anyone anywhere else is growth in such a god forsaken place. who cares.
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  Invited to a talk: What to do?

  by Fred Franztone in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my sister texted me last night with an invitation to watch our dad give his first ever public talk.

  i don't live particularly near to my family, but i'm not too far from them to make the journey, and i am on good terms with them, having never been baptised and so not disfellowshipped; they don't shun me and likely wouldn't even if i were disfellowshipped, it's not in their character.. i haven't been inside a kingdom hall since 2006, and i would like to keep it that way; i only intend to step inside one again in the event of a family wedding or funeral service.

  i don't want to be rude to my sister, ignoring the text isn't an option, so i need a diplomatic way of declining her invitation.. i've considered saying that i'm busy, but this leaves things open for her to ask again in the future, and i'd rather she got the message that i'm not interested, without me having to say so in an explicit way.. any suggestions from those who have been in a similar situation?.

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  stan livedeath

  
  

  
  

  but the thought of being in a kingdom hall and listening to (even a mere 30 minutes of) the watchtower's propaganda makes me feel quite unwell,

  thats exactly how i would reply. emphasise how in the last 12 years youve had a great life..well away from the wt--and never felt better.
  
  
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  Screwed up sexually

  by purrpurr in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i was thinking about how the borg screws up and sexually neuters their flock by telling them when single to "deaden their body" and then boom as soon as there's a ring on the finger to not be denying eachother.. do any of you know of jws who have been screwed up by these teachings?

  i know 2, 1 elder came back from honeymoon having a nervous breakdown unable to cope with the cd that sex produced in his head.

  and the other called up her parents while on honeymoon, crying and begging for themto come and get her, since she was so shocked that sex hurt.

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  i'm lucky--i shook off all that cult repression and control as soon as my first wife chucked me out. straight into an anything goes live in relationship with the j-dub woman i had an affair with ( she got d/f for it ).. that lasted about a year--then i went free fall into casuals for a couple of years till i met wife to be 2.

  that 2nd marriage lasted 23 years till she sadly died at a young 58. i was pretty well monogamous during those years.

  after her death i got involved with wife to be 3--married a year after we met. bad mistake--for various reasons. i then went back into free fall mode again--in my 60's!

  been married to wife 4 for 2 years now--shes 22 years younger than me, and has a very healthy sex drive that keeps me more than satisfied.

  i reckon in the 50 years ive been sexually active ( from 20 to 70 ) ive bedded about 50 women, which for a bloke is about average i would think.
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  Screwed up sexually

  by purrpurr in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i was thinking about how the borg screws up and sexually neuters their flock by telling them when single to "deaden their body" and then boom as soon as there's a ring on the finger to not be denying eachother.. do any of you know of jws who have been screwed up by these teachings?

  i know 2, 1 elder came back from honeymoon having a nervous breakdown unable to cope with the cd that sex produced in his head.

  and the other called up her parents while on honeymoon, crying and begging for themto come and get her, since she was so shocked that sex hurt.

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  we were both teenage pioneers--me a servant. enjoyed very heavy petting for a couple of years befor we got married--me 20--her 19 ( a born in bossy spoiled brat ) technical virgins till our wedding night. what a disappointment that was. she was so slack i couldnt touch the sides ( or was i under endowed ). still managed to do about 10 strokes though.
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  What you reckon? (I'm talking in my normal accent)

  by punkofnice in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  there was this really lovely old geezer in a congregation i was in here in the uk.. he was an old bloke and very frit of giving talks and that.

  when he was on the platform he'd be bleedin' scared...like an elephant near a bloody mouse.. so, 'ere's my question, right?

  blimey.

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  stan livedeath

  punk--

  very frit of giving

  on your other recent thread--someone said they thought you were french--punk of neece ?

  heres further proof----frit--- as in poisson et frits--fish n chips.

  dont worry--your secrets safe on here.
  
  
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  Org's "rearranginging deck chairs on the titanic" serving 2 purposes

  by nowwhat? in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  in 2 weeks we will be announcing major changes in northern ohio congregations and there is quite the buzz in the area about it.

  just talked to a jdub from the detroit area that just underwent similar changes, and they mentioned it has been "quite exciting" to get to meet new brothers and sisters.

  so besides the cash benefit of selling a couple kingdom halls in the process.

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  the dubs are getting really excited--the end will come any day now--and the rest of mankind will all be murdered by their loving god.
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  Do You Think The Mayor of London Is Doing a Good Job?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  his city seems pretty dangerous especially since he has taken over and of course he just loves trump.

  lol .

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  stan livedeath

  i thought donald trump and boris johnson were the same person--only standing sideways.

  i suppose the result would be don johnson.